1a. I made sis a coffee today because she felt tired, then helped watched the little ones later so she could rest.
1b. Sis spent the day hanging out with me and driving to Somerville for lunch, despite being tired.
2a. Mom made sticky rice cakes for us to enjoy, and so she could show Penny how they were made.
2b. I wrapped them for her as she made them, and to keep her company.
Active giving is multidirectional.